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Stand By Me - Speaker List

"Our Mission is to provide teenagers and their parents with the opportunity and skills for improvement of understanding and communication, thereby building or enhancing trust and self-esteem. In doing so, we will be helping parents and teenagers deal more effectively with the issues and concerns faced by today's families. We believe that we accomplish this mission by offering a wide variety of interactive workshops administered by leading New England psychologists, educators and other professionals.

Speaker List: Stand by Me 2010
(alphabetical order - subject to change)
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Jack Agati, M.A., Encouraging Concepts Associates
http://www.jackagati.com

Workshop: Are We Raising a Generation of Houseguests? (Adults)
Is your adolescent becoming an extended houseguest or is he/she actively participating in the running of the household? Teaching our children the importance of these responsibilities may be one of our greatest gifts.

Workshop: Birth Order: How Your Place in the Family Affects Your View of the World. (Adults)
This entertaining and informative program looks at the many characteristics associated with the various positions in the family. Participants will gain a better understanding of the styles of their children’s behavior and how to avoid potential conflicts with their own styles of behavior.

Charlie Appelstein, MSW, Youth Care Specialist, Author
http://www.charliea.com

Workshop: The Power of Strength-Based Parenting (Adults)
This fun and stimulating workshop highlights the key principles and techniques of strength-based parenting, an emerging approach to child-rearing that empowers kids to be all that they can be. Topics covered include using strategic verbal interventions, setting limits, building self-esteem and managing number one first.

Georgia Brussard, Teacher, Lurgio Middle School

Workshop: Can We Talk? (Adults and Students)
Sometimes the simplest problems can interfere with clear communication. This workshop will review a few basic communication rules through the use of hands-on activities. This is a participation-required workshop ideal for parents and students to share. Come prepared to have some fun!

TBD, Coalition for Bedford Youth

Workshop: FUN-damentals of Coalition for Bedford Youth (Adults and Students)
A fun-filled interactive session run by the kids of the Coalition for Bedford youth! Come see how the 8^th-12^th graders are bringing leadership and community service to an all new level of fun. Students will discuss how volunteerism is rewarding and enjoyable experience that helps gain confidence and respect from adults and is a great way to make new friends! See what events have been planned and how CBY's positive experiences help young people in Bedford become caring, responsible adults.

Sharon Cowen, Family and Consumer Resources Educator, UNH

Workshop: Let’s Talk about Money! (Students)
You make it, you spend it! What more is there to know about money? Well, as it turns out, there’s lots more to know, even when you’re a teen. In this workshop we’ll talk about the basics of using your money wisely.

Bill “Spike” Donahue, School Resource Officer, Lurgio Middle School

Workshop: Learning the ADC’s: Alcohol, Drugs, and Consequences (Students)
Spike wants you, his favorite students, to grow up healthy and happy. He will give you the information you need to be a well- informed teen about the legal and physical consequences of alcohol and drug use.

Richard Dufresne, M.S.W., Alliance Consulting

Workshop: Am I Too Young for Stress? (Adults and Students)
Children and adults alike are inundated with various kinds of stress. Come learn to identify “good” stress and “unhealthy” stress and effective tools you can use to manage the stress of homework, chores and friends.

Workshop: Am I Expecting Too Much or Too Little From My Child? (Adults)
Understanding the developmental characteristics of a seventh grader will allow you to create realistic expectations of your child. Identify the signs that a child is truly under too much stress and how to respond, as well as the traps that enable a child to become a guest rather than a full family member. Learn the importance of working in alignment with all caretakers: parents, step parents, teachers and others to create a feeling of security and love in your child.

Detective Matthew Fleming, Bedford Police Department

Workshop: Going Online: Don’t be Naive! (Adults and Students)
This workshop introduces parents and students to the growing exploitation and dangers that exist through the many internet resources available to teens today. We will discuss how computers, cell phones, iPods, digital cameras, and internet blogs all play a role in placing students and families at risk every day. Learn steps you can take to protect yourself and others.

Al Fredette, M.Ed., Lurgio Middle School Counselor

Workshop: On the Road to Adolescence (Adults)
Is your seventh grader pushing you away, trying to make tough decisions without your input, or seeking advice from peers and older teens? Seventh graders are striving for independence but need you now more than ever. Come learn some tips about how to supervise, connect with and guide your teen into a closer relationship with you.

Larry Gagnon, Ironman Finisher – World Championship Hawaii
http://www.larrygagnon.com/

Workshop: Just like the Pros (Students)
How do they do it? What do pros and successful people do to get to the top? How do they manage their time and break through obstacles? In this workshop, students will learn strategies and techniques so they can turn goals and dreas into reality. Learn to succeed just like the pros.

Keynote Speaker: Ed Gerety, Speaker/Author, Gerety Presentations
http://www.edgerety.com

Keynote Address: The Courage to Soar
In this powerful presentation, Ed shares an important message about the power of respect for yourself and for one another, appreciation for our abilities and the people in our life, the impact of our choices and decisions, the courage to believe in yourself, and the power we have to reach out and make a difference.

Workshop: Making it Happen(Adults and Students)
This interactive workshop is designed to teach participants the skills that are essential to setting and achieving their goals. Learn how to maintain your positive attitude and take it to the next level. This workshop will also explore the variety of pressures that often influence our decisions. Three specific strategies will be taught to help students face these pressures and make choices that will bring them closer toward their goals and dreams.

Steve Gerety, Professional Youth Speaker
http://www.stevegerety.com

Workshop: It’s Up to You! (Students)
In this exciting and fun presentation, Steve shares with you the key areas to help you set goals, make positive choices and to care for and respect one another. His message inspires students to believe in themselves, their dreams and the life they want to live.

Mike Hague, Adjunct Professor, NHTI, Drug/Alcohol counselor

Workshop: Nervous and Unhappy: Depression and Anxiety in Teens (Adults and Students)

Kathleen Hassan, Motivational Speaker/Author
http://www.kathleenhassan.com

Workshop: Self Esteem is Priceless: The only thing you can't get at the mall is the most important thing of all. (Adults & Students)
Advertisers spend millions to make billions marketing to kids - and it's working. Our youth are led to believe they are nothing without the next latest, greatest thing. Our junk culture is being played out on the playground and in the classroom in the form of envy, anger, bullying, depression and addiction. The solution is self-esteem and teaching our kids how to value who they are, instead of what they have. In this session, you will learn the six secrets to self-worth, self acceptance and success - and they don't cost a thing.

Workshop: Success U: The Stress on Today's Teens to Succeed (Adults & Students)
The pressure to be #1 can be overwhelming and we've been brainwashed to believe that anything short of that is failure. SAT's, college applications, finals, proms, boyfriends, girlfriends (or lack thereof!), parents, best friends, sports, extra-curricular activities...and the list goes on and on. Is it any wonder that kids today are overwhelmed and on overload? Come learn some proven strategies to turn your stress into success. Move from the outer layers of fear, worry and anxiety into the inner world of peace and unleash your potential power.

Jason Holder, Ed.D., Director, Adventurelore Programs

Workshop: Adventures in Trust, Communication, and Self-Esteem (Adults and Students)
This interactive program includes presentations, role plays and challenge activities that draw out the importance of trust and communication at home, at school and in various social situations. Experience the way to a healthy, happy and successful lifestyle. Parents and students participating in this seminar will leave better prepared to deal with the trials and thrills of the years ahead.

Anne Johnson, Community Educator, Planned Parenthood of Northern NE

Workshop: Risky Business (Students)
Come join this interactive presentation that will help you determine what teen social behaviors can affect your sexual health. Recognizing these behaviors is one thing – developing skills to make healthy life choices is another.

Workshop: How to Talk with Your Teen about Sexuality (Adults)
Join other parents who have similar concerns to learn how to initiate and create an open and honest on-going conversation with your child about your values with regard to sexuality.

Richard Labell, Professional Speaker & Former Police Chief
http://www.labellpresentations.com

Workshop: Winning it All (Adults and Students)
This energetic, humorous and interactive workshop uses music to address the serious issues of substance abuse and violence. Gain skills to develop a positive attitude and build self-esteem. Students learn how to incorporate these tools into everyday life so they can resist the worst and become the best that their individual talents will allow.

Workshop: Part of the Plan: Developing a Personal Plan, Creating a Positive Successful Life! (Adults and Students)
If you want to become successful, you have to have a plan. In this high-energy, interactive workshop, Rick describes the key components to every plan that is critical to achieving success. Beginning with the objectives, covering the 3 major roadblocks, sharing his own personal experiences and ending with the development of personal success charts, Rick expertly explains what it will take to successfully reach your target, conquer your goals, and achieve your dreams.

Donna LaRue, M.A., LADC, LCMHC, Bedford High School & Lurgio Middle School Youth Counselor

Workshop: Alcohol and Drugs in Bedford (Adults)
Find out why, where, and how the Bedford kids use alcohol and drugs. Parents can be effective in reducing underage drinking and drug use. Learn strategies to prevent access and create clear and consistent messages.

Nancy Malo, CFCS, CMC, Community Health Services

Workshop: Ideal Dating: Strategies for Success (Adults and Students)
Dating and parties are important events for teens to learn social skills and participate in social recreation. These events are also opportunities for alcohol use, drug use, sexual experimentation, and violent behavior. This session helps identify alternative party and dating events so teens are less apt to engage in unplanned, unstructured and negative situations.

Lori McIntire-Willis, M.Ed., Project CRISS Facilitator/Teacher
http://www.projectcriss.com

Workshop: “Hey, I got an A!” Study Skills for Success (Adults and Students)
Students and parents will be introduced to strategies that will aid in the development of independent learners. By working together, parents can help their children be more successful. This will be a hands-on experience, using tools and learning strategies for handling various academic challenges.

Sue Mullen, M.S, CSC, Lurgio Middle School Counselor

Workshop: Know Your Limit (Adults)
Convinced you’re the only parent who ever says “No”? Trying hard to figure out when to let go? This workshop will explore the role of parents in setting limits and the critical nature of communication with kids.

Linda Murphy, USAB Level III Boxing and Mixed Martial Arts Coach, Murphy’s Boxing Gymnasium

Workshop: Don’t Be Lunch for the Lions! (Adults and Students)
Would you like to know your predators and how to outsmart them? Knowledge and awareness can change a fear-based response to one of calm and logic. Fine tune your intuition. Channel your anger into assertiveness. Learn how to manage aggression. Try your skills in this fun interactive workshop with the punk perpetrator…Blue Maxx.

David B. Reynolds, D.Min., Pastoral Counseling Services

Workshop: Resolving and Managing Conflict(Adults)
Conflict resolution skills are essential to families with adolescents. In this class, parents will learn techniques and skills to resolve conflict when possible and manage conflict when resolution is not possible.

Jack Slatoff, Ph.D, Clinical Child Psychologist

Workshop: Adolescent Survival Kit (Adults)
How can parents deal with the trials and tribulations of adolescence? What part does the adolescent brain play? What are the most common areas of conflict? This workshop will give parents tools to deal with their changing and maturing youth.

Captain David Spahn, Retired Public Education Officer, Londonderry Fire Department

Workshop: 7th Grade: “The Best Years of My Life” (Adults and Students)
This interactive workshop is designed for the young and the young at heart, addressing the all too familiar subject of bullying. Bring your sense of humor and your 7^th grade stories as we explore the joys and disappointments of the best years of your life, ”The 7^th Grade”.

Catherine Vachon, B.S., M.A., Lurgio Middle School Health Educator, Substance Abuse Counselor

Workshop: Even Good Kids Make Bad Choices (Adults)
Have you ever wondered what kids are up to these days? Learn about current teen risks and how to reduce them. Find out what may help keep your kids safe when you're not the chaperone. Discuss signs of a troubled teen.

William Whitmore, CAA, Athletic Administrator, Bedford High School

Workshop: Keeping Your Balance (Adults and Students)
Competition is part of life but sometimes things get out of control. This presentation will discuss suggestions for keeping sports, academics, and life in general balanced. Mr. Whitmore has many insights for both parents and students about how to keep things in perspective.

Michelle Wilson, Yoga Instructor

Workshop: Move your Body, Soothe your Mind (Students)
Explore simple yoga poses and breathing techniques to support your health and happiness. Have fun while learning practical tips to release tension, energize your body, and stand tall. Please wear clothing that is comfortable to move in.